[Dear Alifia] #2
Halloooo there! Lemme know your problem right now. Because i can help you. In this second #DearAlifia, our friend had to tell me something made her really sad. And now, she feels better. I hope, not only for her, but for you, it helps too :D
Dear Alifia. I need your help. Please answer. I have a classmates that i think she`s like, doing too older than her real age. Can you imagine? She uses make-up like lipstick, lipgloss and mascara for going to school. Even if we`re not at school, she wears sexy and adult-fashioned clothes. Actually, she`s doing good to me. And i never had a problem with her during i`m on sixth grader. I did not get too close with her. But the whole sixth grader hated her. They bullied her. At the first time, i don`t want to bully her too. But after that, i started to make gossips about her. And all of my friends believed to that story. Finally i was feeling uncomfortable. I`m scared if my Mom wouldn`t believe me again that imma good girl. I used to try to stop all of my gossips being spreaded out. But i was late. She already knew that i`m gossiping mean things to her and it seemed that she hated me.
She told her Mom and her mom texted me and i made my Mom totally embrassed. Then i said sorry. I told her how my friends hated her and as i`m involved, i tried to be exist between them, by gossiping lies about her. She forgave me but now we`re like.. just pretending to be friends. We`ve never talked again. Can you give me advice, so that i can talk to her again? Thanks Alifia...
Anonymous, 11-United States
Hi. From your writing, it seems that actually you`re a nice and wants to admit your mistake. But, you should be more firm. If you friend bullied someone, you should not bullying her too. You don`t need to be afraid to be bullied to. It`s better if you report your friends behavior to adults.
And i know you`re feeling sorry about this. I think, you can try to think before doing :) If you`re doing careful, you`ll decrease risk to get the worse things befall you.
If you wanna have a real friendship again with her, you can tell face-to-face to her when there are only you both. Tell her like, "I`m sorry. I think we`re schoolmates but like pretending we`re friends. We should stop it. I miss to be friends with you. I am feeling so sorry. I hope you can understand"
And surely, she will understand.
I hope it helps :)
Alifia
Dear Alifia. I need your help. Please answer. I have a classmates that i think she`s like, doing too older than her real age. Can you imagine? She uses make-up like lipstick, lipgloss and mascara for going to school. Even if we`re not at school, she wears sexy and adult-fashioned clothes. Actually, she`s doing good to me. And i never had a problem with her during i`m on sixth grader. I did not get too close with her. But the whole sixth grader hated her. They bullied her. At the first time, i don`t want to bully her too. But after that, i started to make gossips about her. And all of my friends believed to that story. Finally i was feeling uncomfortable. I`m scared if my Mom wouldn`t believe me again that imma good girl. I used to try to stop all of my gossips being spreaded out. But i was late. She already knew that i`m gossiping mean things to her and it seemed that she hated me.
She told her Mom and her mom texted me and i made my Mom totally embrassed. Then i said sorry. I told her how my friends hated her and as i`m involved, i tried to be exist between them, by gossiping lies about her. She forgave me but now we`re like.. just pretending to be friends. We`ve never talked again. Can you give me advice, so that i can talk to her again? Thanks Alifia...
Anonymous, 11-United States
Hi. From your writing, it seems that actually you`re a nice and wants to admit your mistake. But, you should be more firm. If you friend bullied someone, you should not bullying her too. You don`t need to be afraid to be bullied to. It`s better if you report your friends behavior to adults.
And i know you`re feeling sorry about this. I think, you can try to think before doing :) If you`re doing careful, you`ll decrease risk to get the worse things befall you.
If you wanna have a real friendship again with her, you can tell face-to-face to her when there are only you both. Tell her like, "I`m sorry. I think we`re schoolmates but like pretending we`re friends. We should stop it. I miss to be friends with you. I am feeling so sorry. I hope you can understand"
And surely, she will understand.
I hope it helps :)
Alifia
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